I try to do this as much as I can, but since I use the dreaded Blogger it's harder to respond than it is with Typepad and Wordpress. Then again, I don't get many comments anyway unless they're entering a giveaway.
Like you, I try to respond to all comments even if it is just to say thanks. There have been a few times I haven't gotten to a comment, but I try to make sure to always go to the commenter's blog and comment.
DUH! Didn't even think about dropping a entrecard. Thanks for that idea.
I try to respond but I think Jenni said it, I get a lot of non-reply so I try to at least go to their blog and comment. I want to move over to WP so bad so I can do that comment to the comment thingy. One day...one day.
I used to send emails to new commenters, but I have gotten lazy and I don't do it as much anymore. I always reply in the comment section. However, if it is personal or comment that needs attention I will send an email. I do try to leave a comment on their blog. But I feel bad that I only leave one comment on their blog to possibly never return to it. I don't want to get in the habit of 'I will only comment on your blog, if you comment on mine.' I can't possibly keep up with everyone's personal blog that follows mine. I would like to, but I can't.
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