I have been picking just a few blogs that i like and have tried to develop relationships that way. It's difficult because there are so many bloggers and so many people out there. I post daily, reply to comments, and just try to be myself. It's probably not working but what can i say. Here's my blog: http://allfookedup.blogspot.com
I'm no expert but here's a few things that helped me get traffic to my site
*Submit your site to Blog directories
*Every time that you make a new post, submit it to social bookmarking sites such as digg, stumbleupon, mister-wong, and reddit
*Comment on forums and blog and include your site url
* Become active on facebook & twitter and promote your site
It's alot of work to get traffic but your hard work will eventually pay off :)
Thanks for all your suggestions!
Btw, somehow I can never leave comments on blogger blogspot.... so upsetting, every time I typed my blog url on openID, it always came back error. Any idea?
Here are two traffic tips that work well for me:
1. Comment on Ezine Article within your site's niche. Ezine has a high page rank and lots of traffic daily, so just by commenting on articles related to your site will help you bring in lots of traffic.
2. Submit every new blog post to social bookmarking sites such as digg, stumble upon, reddit, mister wong, etc... There is a free social bookmarking tool at http://www.socialmarking.com/ which allows you to post new comments to all major bookmarking sites at one time. You will have to create an account for each site first, but after you do that, your life will become a whole lot easier :)