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Writing & The Road to Publishing

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Comment by Swati Bharteey on March 17, 2010 at 9:58pm
Hi all: I was out of town and it looks like I missed a lot...

Jillian, thanks so much for your comments over the last day and a half! I think my writing is getting more descriptive and, well, "exact" with fewer words. It sure has taken a long time and I appreciate everyone bearing with me.

Richele: I am so sorry to hear about everything going on for you with the book and your mom; I agree with some other comments below...just let it play out and know the right things will happen. So funny, one children's book I have started and modified is also a bed time story my mom made up...I better check in with her...! I hope it works out soon for you.

And all: thanks for your visits and comments on my writing - it's SO helpful!
Swati
Comment by Meagan Frank on March 17, 2010 at 10:27am
Richele,
I agree that a wait and see attitude is your best approach. I could see myself having the same emotional conversations with my mother if she and I were ever intertwined in the same project. Hopefully things will settle down, and maybe in the meantime you can focus on those other books for a while. Good luck with all of it!
Comment by Richele on March 17, 2010 at 1:24am
Thanks Jillian...I pretty much have come to the conclusion. I am going to let it ride. For all I know the book will get turned down. lol. All I can do is see what happens. I'm sure editors have worked with difficult people before! lol. Who knows, maybe the editor will like my character and I can make a book out of that. It's in God's hands now. My mom is a good person...she is just an emotional one...and more attached to her story than I realized. It probably looked like I was taking it over...but on my end I thought I was helping her achieve something she never would have on her own. Whatever. I will cross that bridge when I come to it. The book is not published now and the worst thing is that it won't get published..that's not the end of the world. I have two of my own children's books to work on anyway.
Comment by Jillylivi on March 17, 2010 at 1:16am
Richele,

I say, don't fret and stress yourself out over it. Let nature takes its course and hopefully, all will work out for the best. Worrying is not going to help you any.

Cross that road when you get to it.
Comment by Richele on March 17, 2010 at 1:13am
Sorry that my post was so terribly written! LOL.
Comment by Richele on March 17, 2010 at 1:11am
Thanks ladies. Here is the deal, maybe that will shed more light...maybe not.

My mother had told me to write the story because she would never actually write it. I had no intention of not crediting her...but I took that as permission. So, I did. I turned in a query letter and an editor wanted to see the full manuscript. Well, my mother was thrilled at first. I told her of how I interpreted the story with one character added in. She loved the idea. I turned everything in. Now...to be fair, I did make the mistake of turning it in before allowing her to read the finished product. I was so excited that I just sent it over! She was not thrilled with that. I can understand that. She then changed her mind and did not like the character I added in. Well, I already turned it in that way...AFTER she thought it was a good idea. Then I had to hear about how the main character is so near and dear to her heart that she is almost real to her and she can picture her exactly in her head. Had I known all that..I NEVER would have touched the project. She is VERY emotional anyway. She would never go ahead with the project with the additional character. She would just die if I got it published without her approval or with her being involved. To be honest, once she gave me permission to write it up and I planned on crediting her with it...I thought her part was done. I suppose that was wrong??? I don't know. But I do know, that she has very solid ideas on this story and will not change a thing. That's fine...but had I known that I would not have touched it...as I said. I cannot in good conscience get this book published without her approval. Yet, I feel I wasted the opportunity of a lifetime on this story. I don't know if I have the power to remove the character now. My mother is also very limited in her understanding of business and publishing. She is uncompromising and no doubt would want to talk to the editor if she wanted to change anything or pick an illustrator she did not approve of. It is my understanding that the publisher picks the illustrator anyway.

Geesh this is long...sorry. If I could remove the character and be sure my mother was properly credited, I would love the opportunity. My mother wants the book to say: Created by: HER and Written by: Richele

Honestly, I don't even know what I can do or not now. I am sure I will look like a fool now anyway.

I should have known better. But it was a dream of her's to see the book published...so I wanted to bring the dream alive. In one conversation I felt accused of stealing her work and she failed to remember that she told me to write it. You see what I am dealing with? Actually, I wish I could change it entirely and put a pen name on it and leave it at that! LOL.

So, I am just heartbroken. If the editor wants to publish it...well...I feel like a fool asking to change so much. Am I? You see why I just want to forget the whole thing?
Comment by Jillylivi on March 17, 2010 at 1:02am
Beth, your articles are very impressive, significant and informative. Thank you for sharing.

What a small world we live in. I grew up very close to where you live now, in Longmeadow, Mass. I can't tell you how much I miss those warm summer nights and the trees!!! I sooo miss the trees.

Spring is so beautiful back there and it is nothing but wind and mud here. Oh well, I guess we always long for the place we grew up in.
Comment by Jillylivi on March 17, 2010 at 12:55am
Richele,

If I have learned nothing else, I have learned to not be taken down by others criticisms and expectations of me. This is not to say that you should not listen to your mother's concerns but if your book is in the hands of somebody who is interested than try to release yourself from the worry and keep a positive outlook.

Your childrens book seems like an incredibly special project and should not become a vice between you and your mother. It seems to me that if you remain true to your mother, eventually it will turn into something that the two of you can be proud of together.

I agree with Peryl, you never know where this book may take you.
Comment by Peryl Manning on March 16, 2010 at 10:43pm
Congratulations Lori!

And thank you Beth - you are a sweetheart and I love your blog, and am excited to check out your website.

Richele - so sorry you are having this experience - you seem so kind, and don't deserve the trauma. I'm proud of you for having come so far with the story - it means there is another one in you with fewer emotional complications.

Thanks everyone for being so open with their achievements and frustrations - it truly is inspiring. You are just a stellar group of writing women!!

Peryl
Comment by Tami W. on March 16, 2010 at 8:15pm
Richele - sorry to hear you are having those issues with that book. It has to be a little heart wrenching for you.

Know you have an ear if you need it!
 

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