i have to be really honest here. as much as I would like to say no, he probably does. but it sure doesn't seem like it. we could both be sitting around and he's on the computer and i'm doing something and I'm the one that takes the toddler potty, i'm the one to get a glass of juice and i'm the one give a hug when someone scrapes a knee.
BUT... he's a SAHD, so i know he takes care of the kids when i'm gone. he cooks dinner, cleans up and certain nights, gives baths.
we've talked about this and when i'm home, i think he knows (or at least thinks) that i want to be with the kids and spend time with them, so he "lets" me take care of them. but i'm at work all day AND at work at home with the kids while he gets to relax on the computer.... hmmmm....