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Comment by Margot Finke on March 5, 2011 at 3:24pm

Meagan, I think it is a matter of priorities. It all depends on what YOU, as a writer mother and wife, consider  the #1 priority in your life.  Seriously ponder what would be the least traumatic of those three to be without. All three are important to many of us, so the secret is to find the right balance between writing and family. 

Sometimes you have to suck it up and put family first.  Other times you can negotiate (bribery works too) a way to get to that writing conference without first having to file for divorce. Getting up earlier to write also works.  What writer needs 8 hours of sleep anyway???

Then look at the choices you make and the compromises you agree to over a yearly time frame.  If you are winning this family versus writing career war, your yearly balance sheet should come out pretty even: 50-50. 

If the odds favor one side a huge amount, decide if you want to make a change.  If the off-balance favors your writing, make sure you are prepared to face the consequences of this.  If it favors your family, make sure you are happy with this.  If not, look for more compromises and much better bribes for husband and kids.

I know when I began serious writing I had to decide what was most important, my kids and my husband, or my writing.  Family won hands down.  So husband and I worked out some compromises that have worked well through the years.  It is not perfect, but we have been happily married for almost 40 years now, and I have 11 books published, and more to come.  None of our kids have Mommy Dearest trauma!!

You CAN have it all - just not all at the one time.  And a happy family cheering you on is a wonderful bonus.  SECRET: Going to bed together keeps marriages warm and fuzzy.  Hey, you can always sneak out later if the Muse calls, or his snoring reaches umpteen decibels.

Margot's Magic Carpet - WIN my mid-grade book for BOYS!
OR - Read a sample page

http://perfectmagiccarpet.blogspot.com/

Comment by Linda Boulanger on March 5, 2011 at 12:52pm
Great post, Meagan.  I think your subject is something mothers struggle with every day (and wives too).
Comment by Meagan Frank on March 5, 2011 at 8:13am

Do you think it is possible for moms to redefine themselves without sacrificing their children or their marriages?  I'd love to hear your thoughts on this one.

Latest blog post:  Running Away...

Comment by Alaina Forbes on March 4, 2011 at 6:24pm
Loving checking out some of the writing here!
Comment by Mom Daughter Style on March 3, 2011 at 10:43pm

You can find some of my writing at http://momdaughterreviews.blogspot.com/

and

http://momdaughterstyle.blogspot.com/

 

I think I write about everything, It is nice to be part of this group.

 

Comment by Margot Finke on March 2, 2011 at 7:06pm

I am following on World's Worst Moms - please follow me.

Margot's Magic Carpet - WIN my new mid-grade book for BOYS!
http://perfectmagiccarpet.blogspot.com/

 

Comment by Wokintime on March 2, 2011 at 1:53pm

Hi everyone!

I love to write about life and food.  If anyone wants to trade a critique I would love some advice and will give some in return.

 

Looking forward to reading everyone's work and learning from you as well!

 

Jamie

http://www.wokintime.com

Comment by PartlySunny on March 2, 2011 at 2:07am

Hi guys, 

Sorry I've practically fallen off the MBC map. Don't know about you, but I have a really hard time keeping all my balls in the air. Anyway, I've been writing -- still at Partly Sunny, Chance of Rain. Decent stuff, I think. Been going through a couple of rough patches (who hasn't). And I've been posting other moms' stories on World's Worst Moms (which has been a lot of fun and sometimes even cathartic). Please stop by. I'd love to hear what you have to say. 

Comment by Margot Finke on March 1, 2011 at 3:51pm

Christine, I love hearing words like that!!

Don't forget to try for a FREE copy of my mid-grade adventure for tomboys and boys - "Taconi and Claude - Double Trouble"

Just READ my short story "tease" here: http://taconiclaude.blogspot.com/
and leave a comment.

You can also read a sample chapter of my book: http://taconisample.blogspot.com/
Just to see if it fits your kid's. 

 

Margot's Magic Carpet - all 11 books on the one page!
http://perfectmagiccarpet.blogspot.com/
Comment by Christine Korda on March 1, 2011 at 11:23am
Hi Margot, your books sound perfect to my kids! We are looking fwd to read them
 

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