Okay, I know I've been kind of absent on the blog lately.  I am pretty overwhelmed right now getting ready for the "An Affair of the Heart" show in Tulsa, OK this month.  It is one of the biggest shows in the nation and I've been working day and night to get prepared.  But of course I've still had to find time to keep the house looking fresh and add a bit of Fall decor.  Working on the house is…