If you follow me on Twitter or Facebook, you know that I’ve been talking a lot lately about an amazing life change that I made recently. And if you don’t follow me…well, hopefully I’ve intrigued you at least a little bit to hear more. But before I tell you thewhat, let me tell you the why. A couple of months before RJ was born, I lost myself. Throughout my pregnancy I put up with a lot of crap th…