It's been more than four years since I have become a stay-at-home-mom, or SAHM, for short. The perks are aplenty but the downside to it is that your life literally revolves around your children's schedule, especially if you have little support from elsewhere. Some friends are envious of my SAHM status, they say, "so good, can afford to stay at home and look after your children", yet there are oth…