I thought about writing this in my Facebook status box this morning…To all those I have wronged, I’m sorry. Then, I thought, how disingenuous and trite that sounded. As a kid, I used to nervously think about Yom Kippur and all its implications. Of course, the YK liturgy usually compounded my anxiety with frightening descriptions of angels trembling, the book of life, who… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on September 13, 2013 at 1:00pm —
The fact that Rosh Hashanah was so close to Labor day last week left me in a bit of a panic. I'm not sure, but I think I heard my leather boots sniffling in the back of my closet, waiting to be called into high-holiday action. Yet, imagine their shock when I picked out something (gasp) sleeveless, not to mention that I went to high holiday services without... panty hose...(Please mom, don't judge me) still relying on my fading summer tan to complete… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on September 10, 2013 at 10:03am —
I admit it. I am a former bake-o-phobe. Everything I touched turned to goo. Gummy breads, hard rock muffins...you name it, I burned or charred it or set the fire alarm off. Even the ducks at our local pond snubbed my baked goods.
When my son was diagnosed with multiple food allergies, I needed to roll up my sleeves and find a way to get over my bake-o-phobia. It's been four years and I am happy to say that I have overcome my fears and I bring to you two awesome muffin recipes… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on July 7, 2013 at 2:50pm —
Ah….the year is finally winding down, yet, I am still running in circles. Camp forms need to be completed, sneakers need to be replaced, closets need expunging, duffle bags require fumigating. I’m a one woman show. I amass the camp clothes, label, wash all the pool towels on a regular basis and I wonder sometimes, do my kids actually know how much behind the scenes preparation it takes just so they can have fun? The answer is a… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on June 28, 2013 at 10:54am —
My twelve-year old recently completed a semester of health class in middle school. I must tell you that the dinnertime conversations were truly peppered with some fascinating tidbits. I nearly choked on my chicken a few weeks ago when I got questions pertaining to menopause. Really? As if they don’t have enough to worry about in their young, hormonal, over programmed and pressured lives?
Then there was infectious disease week which brought on a serious fear of Rubella and Lockjaw.… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on June 26, 2013 at 10:47am —
I have decided to get back to my Lick the Bowl roots. While this blog was originally intended to discuss food allergy related material including recipes and news items, I realized that my life was not just about food allergies. Don’t get me wrong, they take up a big chunk of my energy, but the blog seemed to take on a persona of it’s own and I liked the direction it took. Nevertheless, it’s holiday time and the one thing I love to do is experiment in the kitchen.
A few weeks ago, I… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on November 22, 2011 at 11:30am —
Wow! I have been sick. Sick as a dog sick. Sick, as I never want to be sick again for sickness sake sick. It all started out innocent enough. A cold. A tickle. An annoying drip. Who knew what a drip could do? Well, if a drip of water over millions of years could produce the world’s most humongous stalactites, I guess a drip in my throat for a month could build up just as well. So, perhaps there is a stalactite in my chest. Sure felt like one. A crushing, pressing, invasive, stalactite.… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on October 28, 2011 at 11:18am —
It’s official; I am the poster child for Oral B hygiene. We now have a new gadget to add to our already expanding line of oral hygiene care. It seems both my husband and I have too much bacteria festering in our mouths, but for opposite reasons. I am overly aggressive in my dental care, and he isn’t aggressive enough. I told him that I could put up with many things that go along with aging, but teeth in a glass…deal breaker.
The dentist insists on a water pik twice a day,…
Added by Rachel Packer on September 20, 2011 at 11:14am —
This past weekend, I attended my niece’s bat mitzvah. Now, I could get maudlin and weepy, (which I’m known to do) and I could pontificate on the bittersweet subject of children growing up and time passing as the song Memories plays in my head.
I could obsess over the fact that we all have a few more lines on our faces, or grays on our heads, or muse over the palpable absence of loved ones, the aunts and uncles whom we elevated to immortal status , and yet eventually succumbed to the… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on September 13, 2011 at 10:19am —
I realize that I haven’t written much lately, and maybe that’s because I just haven’t felt passionate about much over the past few days. Sure, school started, along with all of the crazy that accompanies those first few days, but I managed to get through it without too many tantrums (by me, that is). Life has fallen into a new routine, which is really the old routine –the sequel. Slowly, I have come to accept that I have crossed summer’s finish line, and entered the Fall zone without too… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on September 1, 2011 at 12:30pm —
Well it’s hard to believe that my daughter finally came home from camp a mere four days ago (can you see me grinning from ear to ear?) I couldn’t stop touching her the entire day, as if she was an apparition about to slip through my fingers. She looked great, albeit tired, but had an air about her that clearly indicated… a change. A new self -confidence, or perhaps a bit more independent ... nevertheless, she was home!
I have finally made amends with the postman, though; he is still a… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on August 25, 2011 at 1:33pm —
Well, we are in the home stretch! The letters arrive a bit more sporadically and are no longer gut wrenching essays.
Camp is now being described as a “home away from home.” My girl is blossoming, absorbing, and taking it all in. She is thriving, smiling, and enjoying herself to the fullest. She is described by camp counselors, liaisons and friends as a model camper; the kind that every camp needs and promotes. She has made the definitive decision to return next year…four letters ago she… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on August 16, 2011 at 5:43pm —
We are now down to 11 days before my girl comes home…but I’m not counting. The reports I receive indicate that she is doing great…I’m glad. However, I am still not used to the sensation of not having her around. While her days are filled with sports, swimming, and special projects, mine are restricted to being in the house alone at my computer, and while I relish the quiet, I can’t seem to quell that little anxious part of me that just wants her home already. Continue
Yesterday, I walked…
Added by Rachel Packer on August 10, 2011 at 11:41am —
Sending your ten year old off to sleep away camp for the first time is rather comparable to a new pregnancy. After all, everyone has advice both good and bad, most people think they know more than you, and anticipation, doubt and nervousness are the emotions du jour. Throw in weight gain, breakouts, sleeplessness and lethargy, and I could be pregnant, or I’m just reacting to a difficult transition (trust me…it’s option #2. Option #1 would be a very different blog post).
It’s funny,… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on August 1, 2011 at 11:17am —
This was a personal essay that never got published, but I always think these same thoughts everytime my yearly exam is on the calendar....Let me know if you ever feel the same.
Strangers are truly the common denominator of our daily existence, and while we train our children to avoid them, as adults, our interactions amongst them are inevitable, if not routine. However, there are those moments when we are profoundly affected by those strangers…
Added by Rachel Packer on July 14, 2011 at 11:46am —
Allow me to wallow in a vain, aesthetic and self-absorbed fashion. See, after a week or so of dealing with the ravaging effects of eczema on my child’s entire body along with multiple phone calls from the camp nurse and derm appointments (where I get yet another prescription for toxic steroid cream). Not to mention the sleepless nights full of worry that the kids will make fun of my son and it will affect his social standing throughout life because he is constantly scratching from head to toe.… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on July 13, 2011 at 11:35am —
A very well known and loved Rabbi, Rabbi Sidney Greenberg, (who incidentally was one of the many Rabbis who participated in my wedding), used this phrase, there’s a toothache in my heart, when refering to a friend and colleague who had fallen from grace…enough said. The saying struck me as so poignant and descriptive because we all know how brutal toothache’s can be, and that is exactly how it feels in our hearts when we are saddened or deeply troubled about something.
At 12:30… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on July 8, 2011 at 10:31am —
I am the first to admit that reading a book is more of a luxury these days than a reality. It ranks at the bottom of my priority list…what a shame, because I love to read. Unfortunately, after the dinner dishes are cleared and the kitchen tidied, no sooner do the nighttime rituals begin with showers and other assorted bedtime antics. Then, there is still work to be done like lunches, errant laundry, camp bags and if there is any energy remaining… a half-hearted workout. By the time I get to… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on July 6, 2011 at 2:28pm —
My husband tells me that I always talk out of both sides of my mouth, and he’s right. I try to see both sides of the coin so to speak, probably due to my social work background. I like to look at the whole situation by breaking it down into its comparative parts so as not to be too judgmental.
So, in the spirit of fairness and justice I have decided to add The Top Ten Things I Hate About Summer, (to provide an objective and well -rounded view from yesterdays post) because along with… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on July 1, 2011 at 10:14am —
You can always find me at www.lifeisgoodlickthebowl.blogspot.com
So, I understand that when you go to an ATM, the mirror above the keypad serves as a safety feature. After all, you need to see who may be behind you…I get that. However, I am not sure why they have the same type of mirror above the refrigerated produce in the supermarket. Seriously, what is the point of that? Should I be afraid that someone is going to… Continue
Added by Rachel Packer on June 30, 2011 at 11:22am —