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Raising Toddlers: A Lockdown Drill. REALLY?

Last week, I read this post somewhere – maybe on the Huffington Post? – about a teacher, recounting how her school prepares for a lockdown drill. You know, the preparation for thewhat if a shooter comes to the building kind of drill.

It brought an immense level of fear to my heart – that little preschoolers shouldn’t have to worry that some asshole is going to become a complete psychopath and terrorize them, leaving them fighting to LIVE.

At that moment, I realized…

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Added by Cortney Galster on November 6, 2014 at 3:59pm — No Comments

WAHM: Separating Your Work Life and Family Life

One of the hardest things about being a WAHM is the fact that you’re likely working out of your home a lot of the time – which makes separation of work life and family life really hard. Trust me from experience, my office is in my basement. And it took me a long time to really understand that when I’m working, I need to treat my day like I’m sitting in an office downtown, where a lot of “life” distractions wouldn’t exist. If I didn’t do that, it would be far too easy to get distracted by the…

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Added by Cortney Galster on November 5, 2014 at 3:42pm — No Comments

10 Things You Didn’t Realize Changed When You Became a Mom – Until They Already Happened

The other day I was looking back on the last four years of my life. And I came to this realization that so much has changed since Rick and I got engaged. I’m not quite sure when everything happened, because I think it was this slow movement over time. So to commemmorate my acceptance – or rather, slow relization – of all the things that have changed in the last two and a half years, I give you the list of 10 things you didn’t realize changed when you became a mom – until it was too…

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Added by Cortney Galster on November 5, 2014 at 11:40am — No Comments

Life After Stillbirth: Our First Christmas Without Her

Christmas is my favorite time of year. Especially now that Ricky is our life. Making Christmas amazing and magical for him is my goal.

So usually, I start taking out a few Christmas decorations the weekend after Halloween. This year, with Halloween falling on a Friday, I decided to wait another week – besides, I had really wanted to get our laundry room and entry way deep cleaned and organized – which included a lot more stuff to do than I had initially planned.

Instead, I…

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Added by Cortney Galster on November 3, 2014 at 3:09pm — No Comments

Pregnancy Happens: Stephanie’s Birth Story

Pregnancy Changes Things

I always assumed I’d be the type of person who’d get an epidural at the first sign of contraction pain.  I grew up playing into my girly fears surrounding discomfort and I was certain that a non-medicated birth was NOT for me.  But then I got pregnant.  And the world cracked open in a completely new way.

I went from showcasing my wussiness to embracing my womanhood.  Being pregnant empowered me and made me feel like I could do anything, and that…

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Added by Cortney Galster on November 3, 2014 at 1:28pm — No Comments

Taking Advantage of Daylight Savings with an At-Home Spa Morning

It’s 9:30 AM on Sunday morning. The house is quiet: Hubs had to run to a job site and Ricky’s taking a morning nap {gasp!}.

I hear you. You’re wondering how the heck I got my two year old to actually take a morning nap. It wasn’t by force, guys. It was because he was up unGodly early on the one day out of the year we’re all supposed to sleep in.

Whoever invented Daylight Savings Time was playing a sick joke on toddler moms everywhere.

Out of bed at quarter to five, Ricky…

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Added by Cortney Galster on November 3, 2014 at 9:09am — No Comments

Preparing for Labor and Delivery: Newborn Babies Make the Pain Totally Worth It

There’s this big part of getting ready for labor and delivery that a lot of us forget – or just don’t know how – to do. I’m completely guilty of it. When I was pregnant with Ricky, I got prepared in the normal ways that you think of getting ready for the hospital: touring the facility, registering in advance, packing my hospital bag. But that didn’t really eliminate the anxiety that kept creeping in as we got closer and closer to my delivery date.

Fear of Delivery

I was…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 30, 2014 at 2:35pm — No Comments

Potty Training: Finding Middle Ground Between “Ready” and “Pulling Your Hair Out”

There is no roadmap

There is so much that people don’t tell you before you have kids. For the most part, I’ve been ok with this collective omission, with one major exception: potty training.

No one ever mentioned, even hinted at the horrors that awaited me with potty training.  I had two difficult birth experiences, a hard time with breast feeding my first, and 20 plus weeks of hormone injections with my second and nothing, nothing comes close to the misery…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 29, 2014 at 3:27pm — 2 Comments

Stylish Mom Accessories: Changing Things Up as the Season Change

Around this time of year, the weather starts to really change up here in the frigid tundra of Minnesota. As the leaves start dropping, so does the average temperature. In fact, today was a little bit of a shocker when Rick and I took the dogs out for a walk and had to wear hats, gloves and lots of layers. It’s a brisk 47 degrees today – and WINDY.

So that got me to thinking: being such a stylish mom (or at least, someone who on occasion tries to be one), what are some of my winter…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 28, 2014 at 4:23pm — No Comments

WAHM: Finding the Right Flexibility for Your Family

I was reading this story on BlogHer today – and at first, I sat here thinking…I don’t get it.

And then, I started to really think about it. And now, I just feel lucky to be a work-at-home-mom. Or really, to have the right set up for our family.

Working a 9-5, Monday through Friday wouldn’t work for us. My husband works…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 27, 2014 at 5:17pm — No Comments

Preparing for Delivery: Do You Really Need Those Childbirth Classes?

The first thing Rick asked me when we found out we were pregnant with Addison was, “We don’t have to take those stupid classes again, right?”

I can’t help but laugh thinking back to our experience with Ricky’s pregnancy. I was adamant, from day one, that we needed to go through the classes. And in some ways, they were definitely helpful. But coming into parenthood with the experience that I’ve had – and being very logical people – they weren’t overly…informative.

Basically,…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 23, 2014 at 3:25pm — No Comments

13 Weeks Pregnant: I’ve Got a Baby Belly

Today I had lunch with a few friends after bible study. To clarify, I didn’t make it to bible study because my 2 year old decided that 5 AM is a completely appropriate time to start our day. And then he crashed for a morning nap around 8:30. So we just met up for the “social” side of the morning.

As I was leaving, one of my friends told me that I look good, she couldn’t tell I was pregnant. And inside I was like, “Score! I’m effectively dressing my prego bod!”

Because, you…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 22, 2014 at 4:50pm — No Comments

Blogging Tips: Why I Became a Freelance Blogger

If you didn’t already know this, I write for a living. Well, back that up. I consult for a living. And a big part of that is freelance blogging.

But this isn’t want I’ve always done. I have a strong background in marketing and finance, writing, public speaking and just generally running businesses.

Deciding to do what I do for a living wasn’t an easy jump. It took years of back and forth, being afraid of fully making that leap, dipping my toe in the water, walking…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 22, 2014 at 9:33am — 1 Comment

Toddler Meals: Start Healthy Habits Now

The moment you start feeding your baby you begin setting up eating habits that will hopefully last them a lifetime.   While habits are developed over time, starting your child on healthier foods right from the start is a great opportunity to help children understand the benefits of eating that is good for them.

It is surprising how quickly babies learn the…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 21, 2014 at 4:53pm — No Comments

Parenting Toddlers: Instilling Values When Kids Are Young

And that got me to thinking about how we’re teaching our own little guy real values and beliefs to fall back on. While it’s not a conversation we have all the time, Rick and I had some pretty serious talks about the values we wanted to emulate for our own children back when we first got pregnant with Ricky. They still come up from time to time – but I think the fact that we try to live through our values is more substantial than just talking about them.

So last night it kind of struck…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 21, 2014 at 12:01pm — No Comments

Pregnancy After Stillbirth on National Infant Loss Awareness Day: I’m Surviving.

Today, October 15, is National Infant Loss Awareness Day.

And to be perfectly honest, I don’t really know what to write about.

Right now, I’m in this medium between realizing the milestones that I’m currently missing with Addison and being pregnant with our next child. It seems ironic that today she would have been eight weeks old, and I am twelve weeks pregnant with another child.

It’s hard to think about pregnancy – even when you are pregnant – after you’ve lost a…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 15, 2014 at 3:16pm — No Comments

Style and Beauty: Five Products I’ll Actually Splurge On (and a Sephora Giveaway!)

Back in the day (and by back in the day, I mean in my mid-20’s), I was concerned about finding fab make up finds like products that produced the best smokey eye, bright lip stains and glosses and yummy smelling hair products that did the job well.

I also had no children, which meant lots of disposable income to spend on…me.

Now, I’m married with babies, which…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 14, 2014 at 5:41pm — 1 Comment

A Day in the Life of a Freelance Writer / Toddler Mommy / Pregnant Lady

So, I’ve been meaning to do a “Day in the Life” video for a while, but honestly, I keep forgetting to actually film it. But if you’re wondering what an actual day in the life of a freelance blogger (slash marketing consultant) actually looks like, let me tell you, it’s nothing glamorous. It’s full of the same rushed deadlines, conference calls and crazy hectic kid schedule that you’re facing. Trust me. Want to know more? Well, every day really is pretty different. But in an ideal…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 14, 2014 at 12:32pm — No Comments

Preparing for Delivery: What to Pack in Your Hospital Bag

Sometimes lately, I feel like I’ve been pregnant for a million years.

Ok, not really a million years. But a long time. And when I really look at it, I have basically been pregnant for a year at this point – because even between losing Addison and getting pregnant again, I basically acted like I was pregnant. Because it felt wrong not to.

But that aside, I also have several mama friends who are currently pregnant or recently had babies. And between my own pregnancy (read:…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 13, 2014 at 1:39pm — No Comments

I Don’t Care What You Say – I Love My Uggs.

I was reading the other day about something I’ve heard for years: Uggs are SO not fashionable, omg stop wearing them.

Well, hear this person who hates Uggs: I am your nemesis.

Ok, maybe not that extreme. But seriously, I love my Uggs.

If you’re sitting at your computer groaning, hear me out. Because I’m guessing you’ve never survived a winter in the frigid tundra before.

I start wearing my nice warm boots about the same time the frost advisory alerts start pinging…

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Added by Cortney Galster on October 10, 2014 at 2:15pm — 1 Comment

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