Today, October 15, is National Infant Loss Awareness Day.
And to be perfectly honest, I don’t really know what to write about.
Right now, I’m in this medium between realizing the milestones that I’m currently missing with Addison and being pregnant with our next child. It seems ironic that today she would have been eight weeks old, and I am twelve weeks pregnant with another child.
It’s hard to think about pregnancy – even when you are pregnant – after you’ve lost a…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 15, 2014 at 3:16pm — No Comments
Back in the day (and by back in the day, I mean in my mid-20’s), I was concerned about finding fab make up finds like products that produced the best smokey eye, bright lip stains and glosses and yummy smelling hair products that did the job well.
I also had no children, which meant lots of disposable income to spend on…me.
Now, I’m married with babies, which…Continue
So, I’ve been meaning to do a “Day in the Life” video for a while, but honestly, I keep forgetting to actually film it. But if you’re wondering what an actual day in the life of a freelance blogger (slash marketing consultant) actually looks like, let me tell you, it’s nothing glamorous. It’s full of the same rushed deadlines, conference calls and crazy hectic kid schedule that you’re facing. Trust me. Want to know more? Well, every day really is pretty different. But in an ideal…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 14, 2014 at 12:32pm — No Comments
Sometimes lately, I feel like I’ve been pregnant for a million years.
Ok, not really a million years. But a long time. And when I really look at it, I have basically been pregnant for a year at this point – because even between losing Addison and getting pregnant again, I basically acted like I was pregnant. Because it felt wrong not to.
But that aside, I also have several mama friends who are currently pregnant or recently had babies. And between my own pregnancy (read:…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 13, 2014 at 1:39pm — No Comments
I was reading the other day about something I’ve heard for years: Uggs are SO not fashionable, omg stop wearing them.
Well, hear this person who hates Uggs: I am your nemesis.
Ok, maybe not that extreme. But seriously, I love my Uggs.
If you’re sitting at your computer groaning, hear me out. Because I’m guessing you’ve never survived a winter in the frigid tundra before.
I start wearing my nice warm boots about the same time the frost advisory alerts start pinging…Continue
Ever since we lost Addison, my life became about finding this seemingly non-existent place of balance. It’s never been my strong suit. And I think that was really thrown in my face when we lost our sweet baby girl.
And with all the changes that we’ve gone through in the last five months – and yes, she was born five months ago today – it’s felt impossible to find that perfect spot between work, life, self, gym…
Sometimes, I think that’s the point: when your life is constantly…Continue
I have people stop me every once in a while – usually people I know – to tell me, “I could do what you do, you know. I can write. I could be a blogger. And I would be rich.”
It sounds a little bitchy, doesn’t it? But I really don’t think people mean it that way. So I tell them, “yes, you can. And here’s how you do it.” And then I lay out for them 67 different things they could do to become a famous blogger. And then they go on their way, somewhat happier that I’ve given them my secret…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 8, 2014 at 2:51pm — No Comments
Originally, when I was connected with David from Abigail’s Footsteps, I intended to share a bit of their story and what their organization does. And then David sent me this video that they created as part of a training program for clinics and maternity wards, to help the staff understand what it’s like to go through stillbirth as parents.
I’ve never really shared Addison’s birth story. To be…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 7, 2014 at 12:18pm — No Comments
Being pregnant – no matter how many kids you already have had – isn’t an easy. The truth is, every pregnancy is different. And while there are some things you can plan for, especially since you’ve already been through the whole shebang before, the reality is that pregnancy isn’t something you can plan or schedule. Every pregnancy is different, which means every pregnancy can be unpredictable.
No, I’m not trying to scare you, mama. I’m just telling you the truth: preparing yourself…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 6, 2014 at 5:47pm — No Comments
I know a lot of people who should write blogs. I tell them all the time – you should seriously consider starting one. And their response is always the same: “I just don’t know what to write about.”
Now, I’ve been doing this for so long – and worked with clients on creating niche blogs in so many different industries – that sometimes I feel like the blog whisperer. Tell me ten things about your life and I can tell you what your blogging niche should be. Heck, I can even rattle off what…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 6, 2014 at 11:48am — No Comments
We’ve all been there – that moment when you walk into the ECEC or school or the grocery store – and you see the mom who’s still clad in her favorite items from the years before kids. And I’m not hating on anyone here: but the reality is that if you want to be taken seriously as a parent – or in your career – it’s time to get rid of some of the…less than classy items from your closet and invest in a few items (or find them at thrift shops or second hand stores, if you’re a thrifty mama). To…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 3, 2014 at 4:24pm — No Comments
Guest Post by Dr. Aaron Haight
I love sports. I have played sports my whole life. I was even the only girl on my rocket football team. I minored in sports studies. I interned for the Detroit Pistons and Joe Dumars. Sports are my thing and up until last week I was a Hockey Mom.
My son Jacek is my sports kid. Since age 2 he has been able to sit and watch an entire football game without getting up or whining. We have taken him to high school, college, and professional…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 2, 2014 at 1:57pm — No Comments
I can’t believe we’re here: ten weeks pregnant. And while I know that anything can happen…we’re officially quarter of the way through this pregnancy.
It feels crazy to say that.
For the past several weeks, I haven’t really believed that I’m pregnant. I’m just…going through morning sickness. Counting the weeks.
But it’s starting to get more real. As each day goes by, it feels more and more like a pregnancy and less like I’m just sick. The more that I can relax, the more I…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on October 1, 2014 at 4:35pm — No Comments
I’m not sure if I’ve made this abundantly clear or not, but I have a serious – and we’re talkingserious – obsession with all things chocolate. So when I heard that drinking lowfat chocolate milk is actually a way that athletes are refueling and rebuilding their bodies after strenuous workouts, you have to know that I was excited.
The first time I heard about this was during one of my early…Continue
So I went a little all out for Ricky’s birthday this year. Given how difficult the spring and summer were – and the fact that we barely had any barbeques this year – I just wanted to have a fun little celebration for my little guy turning two.
So…I may have ordered some ponies. But just for the day! Not to keep. Much as my husband would like to have a pony in the backyard.
And yes, that’s true. A hobby farm is definitely on his bucket list. But that’s a story for another…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on September 29, 2014 at 3:45pm — No Comments
So, I have this thing during the week. I rarely wear my hair down, because it bothers me when it gets in my face while I’m working. I also have issues with actually styling my hair during the week, because…well, I’m short on time.
To help fix that, I’ve come up with several quick hair dos that make my mornings easier. And also prevent me from looking like the mom who literally just rolled out of bed to take her kid to school.
And because I love ya, I’m sharing one with you…Continue
So summer is winding down, fall weather is starting to take hold, and while we probably still have a taste or two of summer left (it’s going to be in the 80’s this weekend here in the not-so-frigid tundra!), it really is time to start thinking about the colder months ahead. And with that comes…cold and flu season.
Yes, I know. NOT something you want to think about right now. But nonetheless, as parents, it’s time to start preparing for our most dreaded of days: when the little ones…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on September 25, 2014 at 12:56pm — No Comments
I guess I am what you would call an ‘experienced’ Mom, my 3 daughters are now 8, 10 and 12 and I am well into my 40’s! I have the benefit of reflecting back and seeing if the choices I made when my babies were small have paid off as they enter their teen years. I am happy to be able to share some of that wisdom with you.
My personal website is called RaisingHealthyKids.co as that is what I am passionate about. We all start…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on September 24, 2014 at 12:02pm — No Comments
If you’re local to the Twin Cities – like me – then I know you’ve heard of Cub Foods, one of the biggest local grocers. And if you’ve been keeping up on the news, they recently bought out several of the old Rainbow Foods locations around the Cities to open up some new stores. In honor of their new stores – and in appreciation of their loyal customers – Cub is throwing a big, month long party called Cub Days!
Beginning this week through Oct. 11, Cub shoppers will be able to save big…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on September 23, 2014 at 8:17pm — No Comments
I think I’m finally starting to realize just how much of an impact losing Addison is having on this pregnancy.
The last month was such a whirlwind – it’s been so packed with doctor’s appointments, work transitions, events and chasing after my rambunctious toddler that I really haven’t had a lot of time to think about things. Or how anxious I am to get through every little milestone that I set up for this pregnancy.
I’ve been super behind on reading my favorite blogs lately.…Continue
Added by Cortney Galster on September 23, 2014 at 11:31am — No Comments