Sex comes with so many different feelings and emotions for different people. Before you can go on your first encounter, there is that anxiety you feel and many a times, the first sex performance is pathetic. You do not know how to start, you are not comfortable and the couple is so embarrassed. Did you know you can make your first sex encounter to be so enjoyable and pleasurable? For you to have a great first sexual encounter, you can read this guide before having sex.
Always take precautions and be as safe as you can:
The first time sex is hindered by so many thoughts. Some of the major distractors of great sex is the thought of contracting STIs or even getting pregnant, how do you deal with the situation should any of this happen? With such thoughts, there is no way you can enjoy sex. As much as you trust each other and the question about STI is not there, it is not assured that you will not get pregnant and for the lady, she might not yet know how to count her days to know when she is really safe.
In order for you to have a great first sex session, you ought to use a condom. This should be used even if you are on another form of birth control. It will enable you to greatly enjoy the moment without having to worry what might happen afterwards in terms of STI or getting pregnant.
Take ample time during foreplay.
The quality of the sex depends greatly on how the foreplay goes. Unlike men, most women enjoy foreplay more than even the sexual intercourse itself. Ample foreplay prepares you and your partner’s mind and you will have better sex. Sex is not all about penetration; it involves oral sex as well as manual sex. It is easier for a girl to get orgasm from oral sex or fingering than during penetration.
Whether you will orgasm during the first sexual encounter, it is important to know that clitoral stimulation is the main part that a woman derives pleasure from. Take time. Don’t rush to penetration. Perform the foreplay in a way that even without the penetration, there is a sense of satisfaction from the foreplay.
You should mind about your partner’s pleasure matters.
When you are about to have the first sex, you may have it in your mind about the techniques that you may use to pleasure your partner. However, what you have in mind may not be a turn on for your partner. For you to derive the utmost pleasure, it is recommended that you should talk to your partner, learn what gives him/her pleasure. Don’t have it in mind that perhaps you saw a video a man/woman deriving pleasure from a technique that it will work for your partner. No. People are different and what worked for you may not work for me. Talk about what to do to turn each other on. These details will be important in ensuring that you get the utmost pleasure from your first time sex.