Do you practice attached parenting? Are you a helicopter mom? Have you encouraged your child’s independence?
No matter what type of parent you are, you may be experiencing some anxiety as you send your child off for the first day of school.
Many children also have concerns about school. Will they like the teacher? Will the other kids be nice? Will they find their way around the maze of hallways and classrooms? (I get lost when I do school visits) Will they ever see you again?
Here are five simple steps that will make the transition from home to school smoother.
1. Have an upbeat, matter-of-fact, positive attitude about school.
2. If your child has not been there yet, arrange for a visit before school starts.
3. Connect with parents of other children in the class and have play dates with your child’s classmates…children feel more at ease when they see friendly faces in the classroom.
4. If you don’t have a routine in place for bedtime and getting-ready-for-the-day-in-the-morning time, put them in place now. Make it a habit to discuss plans for the next day in the evening and lay out clothes and anything else needed the night before. When school starts, your child will be used to getting things ready and you won’t have that last minute rush in the morning to find the missing shoe or backpack. Regarding bedtime, please make sure you are allowing plenty of time for your child to get ready (brush teeth, wash, lay out clothes and necessary items, story-time, etc.) and still be getting to bed at a reasonable hour.
5. Make sure your child is eating a good breakfast in the morning…when school starts, this will be even more important. My younger son loved pizza. Some children might prefer eggs and toast, cereal with fruit and milk, French toast and bacon or pancakes with fruit toppings. How about peanut butter and banana on whole wheat bread?
Many times, children who are fussy eaters become better eaters when you let them help out in the kitchen. If you are looking for some simple child-friendly recipes, Show Me How! has one hundred of them and teams each cooking activity with a picture book suggestion and a quick and easy eco-friendly arts and crafts project. You can order a copy on my website at less than 50% of the cover price. The book is available for shipment to Canadian residents also!
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