At what point do you end a friendship? Or don't you? At what point do you get involved in something you're not sure you should be involved in? What do you do, when you realize that the values you have, and the values your best friend have, have turned into polar opposites? I'm completely torn. And after reading this, you'll know why.
So I pray about it. It's my usual way of dealing with things. I tried to make my friend see the error of her ways. She wanted no part in hearing it. I tried really hard not to pass judgement on her, but I also didn't hold back about how I felt about the situation- especially after she told me that she hangs out at the pool with his pregnant wife and their kids. How does she sleep at night?
Do I continue to be friends with someone who is a "home wrecker" in my eyes? I love her, but do I keep her as a friend? I'm trying to be the light in her very dark circumstances. It's hard. After all, my dad did the same thing to my mom. Again, no one cared about us- the children involved who were hurt by the actions of the people who are supposed to care about you the most. I'll never look at my friend the same way again. So I sit here. Completely torn....and still sick to my stomach.