Ok, I just need to get some things off of my chest here. This is family drama.
My cousin A and I are only 9 months apart. Her mom and mine share a birthDAY although they are two years apart themselves. Out of my mom and her 4 siblings, I think that she and A’s mom have the closest relationship. We also have that close relationship. A is like a sister to me. In every way. We love and fight equally. In a lot of ways I feel like I’ve been competing with A my whole life. She’s the pretty one, the athletic one, the popular one. The one who got away with things I would be grounded for thinking about. She learned how to tie her shoes before I did. I think that started the whole thing.
I dropped out of college and had a baby. She stayed in and eventually became a police officer. We lived (for a time) in a shitty trailer and she had a nice apartment and car. She got her hands into all kinds of businesses: Avon, some website selling green cleaning products, and a whole mess of things I don’t remember. When she worked at them, she did so with passion, and she usually made a profit. I never had much luck with that kind of thing. She went out and partied and had fun while I was home with my baby or working my butt off to keep a roof over our heads. I often forgot what I had when I compared myself to her.
Her perfect life began unraveling when she found out she was pregnant. She had been casually dating someone for a while, but I guess while he was away a friend of hers came over one night. She wasn’t sure who the father was at first, but she thought it might have NOT been the one she was dating. It wasn’t. And that turned out to be a good thing for her, at first. The guy she was dating wanted nothing to do with her or the pregnancy when he found out. We were all supportive of her. Whatever she wanted to do, we’d stand behind her. She chose to have the baby. Honestly, out of everyone in my family, she’d make the best single mom.
Turns out, she didn’t have to be a single mom. Her guy friend was ready and willing to step up to the challenge and have a real relationship with her. He has a daughter from a previous relationship, but Andrea turned out to be a great step-mommy, too, despite all the baby mama drama (and there was much). They were planning their wedding and everything was looking great. Until…
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