There are times when nothing I do seems to work with my toddler. It's as though as her confidence grows so does her willingness to talk back. I'll be the first to admit that I'm no expert at discipline. I just try my best to reinforce consequences for bad behavior. Izzy can throw a tantrum like the best of them with the tears, the screaming and even flailing legs for an added affect. That said I still think that generally Izzy is pretty well behaved.
We had another play date today with our neighbor and her two year old. It seems a little harsh to say but I think she is out of control. The first two times I could chalk it up to her being overly tired. At this point I want to say it's just her behavior. I watched as she repeatedly did things against her mother's wishes when the consequences weren't enforced. At one point she came to whisper to me a request that her mother just told her she couldn't do.
I felt for the mother, she genuinely seemed frustrated at her child's behavior. I only reinforced what the mother already told her. I smiled and inwardly cringed at the havoc she was doing to my house. I still want the two girls to become friends but I don't' want Bella's bad behavior to rub off on Izzy. Have you ever been in the position where you wanted to jump in but didn't think you should? Did you ever stop going to a play date in the chance the behavior would rub off on your child?more