ADVERTISEMENT

As I get older, and especially now that I have children, I notice more and more of my Mother and Father in my personality. When I was younger I never thought I was very much like them, But surely I am my Mother’s and Father’s Daughter. Their influence as parents is always going to be a part of me, both the good and the bad.
 The feeling of happiness and contentment I get while singing to my Daughters is connected to my Mother’s morning singing (my favorite thing to hear upon waking). And when I’m nervous or stressed I bite my nails, like she does. I know my unyielding work ethic is an inheritance from my Father and my tendency to seclude myself is him as well.
Realizing this I observed my Husband…..yep, his parents were written all over him, too! It didn’t really hit me at the time.  However as it set in, and I discovered more of my Parent’s influence in me, it got me thinking… I have daughters, and they will have fragments of me and their father, both good and bad. I know that I can’t choose which habits and attributes they adopt, but knowing that they are affected by everything I am and do is making me think about how I behave and what I am teaching them through my actions.  
I am cynical, untrusting and judgmental. To a degree I think that all those characteristics need some presence in their lives in order to be objective and overcome bad influence, but too much and it can destroy or altogether prevent relationships that are beneficial and necessary.
 I know that who I am cannot be changed (nor should it be), but it can be improved to make a better version of myself. I can be less extreme in my negative behaviors and give them a better example of kindness, love and acceptance. 
So I will find what redeeming qualities are still present in our society and savor them. I will work on trusting those who are worthy and learn to appreciate relationships. I will try to accept those who are different from me... and I will do my best to bequeath more desirable fragments of me.

Views: 4

Comment

You need to be a member of Mom Bloggers Club to add comments!

Join Mom Bloggers Club

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISEMENT

Advertisement

MBC CUTIES

Our current cutie was uploaded by Stephanie WentworthUpload a photo of your cutie. They may be featured here. See all of the cuties.

Our Latest Food, Travel & Lifestyle Posts

Save Money on Event Planning

Whether we like it or not, we will all at one point have to wear the event planning cap. Why is that? Because we are human, and along with our humanity come life celebrations: baby showers, weddings, graduations, anniversaries, retirements, funerals, and the list goes on and on. I'm sure that I don't…

Spa Treatments to Rejuvenate Your Body and Mind

After a busy week, when you wish to just relax and unwind in a peaceful setting, your best option is a spa treatment. Spas are a common weekend plan and there are an overwhelming number of options you can choose from. There are facilities directed towards providing beauty treatments, those that offer medical…

Advertisement

ADVERTISEMENT

ADVERTISE

© 2016   Created by Mom Bloggers Club.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service