Being a mom is the hardest job in the world. However, 99% of mom's will tell you its the most rewarding job you could ever have. I'll have to agree. My kids are the world to me and I know you feel the sameway. Although, Its not easy at times being a mom. We have the kids schedule, getting them to school, lunches, breakfeast, homework, laundry, cleanning the house, doctor appoitments, doing the bills, grocery shopping and the list goes on and on and that is not including if you work or have your own business. Two years ago, I went after my dream as a motivational speaker and life coach. ( You can read more on my website at www.kimberlywatt.com) and have another homebased business. I love my life. Its very important to be able to balance everything and not loose focus on what is most important and that is God and my family. However, Sometimes our hubby's don't realize everything that goes on and all we do to keep our family all together especially my husband. He's a terrific man, supporting and loving husband and the most increadible dad to our kids. When I left him alone for the first time with our kids, I think he woke up to how much mom's really do. Being a stay at home mom for 7 years I took care of everything and now that I'm doing my business my husband has to do more around the house. Its about teamwork and helping each other and yes he helps me but its taken him some time to get use to. As much as he loves me having my own business, he also wants everything to stay the same as it was before my businesses. Yesterday, he was talking about his work shirts needing to be cleaned. I told him he knows how to drop off his clothes at the dry cleaners. Its not my responsiblity. He's not worring about whehter or not my clothes are cleaned. He said its a waste of money and I can clean them!!! I told him with everything we have going on, his work clothes are not my priority. If wants them cleaned he can do them! They want you to build your business as long as long as it doesn't interfear with their schedule. I love him and he is great! I had to take a moment to collect myself. Instead of me wanting to blow up and pull my hair out and scream at him...I just take a deep breath and focus on all the good and remember he can't help he is a man and multi tasking isn't is strong suit!! I'm not going to clean his clothes. He can and needs to learn how to manage his time. I'm curious to see if he will wash his clothes or realize its worth taking them to the cleaners. I just keep focused and doing everything I can do with what I have and know one day soon I will be paying someone to do all the laundry and he won't have a say in the matter!!!
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