Hi there from The Girlz Korner in upstate New York where you'll find light, witty and rather entertaining articles on every topic imaginable from The Little Black Dress to Making Whoopie. So if you get a chance to kick back and exhale, if only for a brief moment ... come on over and see me some time.
You have quite a story to tell. I hope I can help you get a good blog layout to make it easier to share. I think you need a new template.The background area where you write your posts should probably be white and the text should be dark or black. It is much easier on the eyes than a colored back and white text.
Also, the header at the top takes up much of that top area so you have to scroll down a long ways to get to the content of your blog. And, your picture in the middle at the top should probably go over to the right. This can all be solved by a new template with a smaller header.
Let me know if you need help finding one or installing it.
I'm sorry for what went through in the past. I am gald that you have moved forward and have become a pillar of strength for you girls. I applaud your for this strength and for your the positive impact you want to convey not just to your daughters but to all women. I welcome you (with open arms) to MBC.