Well, you have one vote for "Miso" (2 year old), one vote for "Kitty Cat" (also 2. Said no to your suggestions and when I asked what you should name the cat, she said "kitty cat") and one for "Charcoal" (3 years. Didn't like any of the 4 you mentioned. I asked if she liked Charcoal and she said yes.) I think Parmesan is cool and unusual, but hard for young/new readers to recognize or sound out (but depends on recommended age and if you wish to expand reading ability and word recognition). I like any of the names you mentioned. Not sure I helped, but there's some feedback.
Laurie thank you SO much! You gave me the most important info--from the KIDS! Good insight about Patmesan--cute for us but probably too much. Almost all the adults on my Facebook page voted Kiki--I went for Miso first because I saw more male--but they saw female. Very interesting and thanks again.
One more thing--does your 2 year old like Miso soup? :) Have a great Monday and thanks again.