When My first child was born I didn't know how to be a mother. In fact, I think I had only held one baby at the time. Everything was new to me.

My son was a pro at keeping us up at night. I didn't mind because I had no other children and I didn't have a job. So, he and I slept until 12 noon everyday. I thought this was normal.

Until...

I took him to his 12 month appointment. His doctor asked me how things were going. I told her everything was going good and that he was a…