Nanit - The Baby Monitor That Thinks

As parents, you obviously want the best for your child and want to protect them at every stage of their lives. While some approach this by being overly protective and mollycoddling their children, others play bad cop, thinking it will discipline them. Unfortunately, none of these extreme situations work. What helps is striking a balance between the two.

To give rise to independent and responsible children, you need to start instilling habits in them early on that can make them more self-sufficient – physically and emotionally. They need to be taught the importance of taking responsibility and accountability such that they grow to become morally strong and self-aware individuals.

Here are 5 ways to raise responsible children -

Have Conversations

The worst thing you can undermine your child and not indulge in meaningful conversations with them. So what if they are so young, that does not mean that they don’t have something valuable to say. Cherish these years and hear them out instead of brushing them off or worse still, laughing at them.

Treating your children like adults and having conversations helps build respect and trust. They start getting comfortable sharing their thoughts with you early in their life which only grows with time.

When they start looking at you as a friend and confidante, they don’t hesitate to let you in and share their world with you.

Let Them Make Decisions

Don’t always rush to shield your child, fight their battles and make decisions for them. They need to falter once in a while because that is the only way they will learn and do better next time. By teaching them how to take their own decisions, they learn the value of being responsible and taking accountability for their actions.

It can be as simple as an essay writing assignment of theirs – let them attempt it on their own before you jump to offer your help and do it for them.

If they make mistakes, show them the right path and have a healthy discussion with them. Don’t lose your patience and resort to yelling or violence – that instills fear and never goes down well.

Assign Chores

Whether it’s getting your toddler to organize his toys or having your 7-year old clear the dining table after dinner – it is a good idea to assign age-appropriate chores and tasks to your children. This makes them feel more involved, teaches them life-long skills and makes them more capable individuals.

Parents who spoil their children silly and don’t involve them in these simple everyday chores often struggle with inculcating these important values in them later in life.

So, don’t go around cleaning their mess behind them – teach them to do so, you will be glad you did. It is a good idea to do the chores with them – it serves as a great tool to bond and grow closer as a family.

Participate in Community Service

Participating in community service should be part of your family’s life. By keeping your child in a cocoon, you are doing more harm than ever.

Let your child volunteer in community service activities and give back to the community – it makes them more aware of their surroundings and the world they are living in. It also helps instill empathy, compassion, and respect in them.

Whether it’s helping out at a nursing home or working in animal shelters – they are sure to come out more enriched and responsible.

Be a Good Role Model

Last but not the least, you need to be a good role model for your children. They are all you see in their initial years and even if you don’t realize, they are watching and imbibing everything you say or do. So, ensure you set a good example for your children.

From your everyday habits to the way you speak and manage your relationships – you need to have a positive attitude and demonstrate good character for your child to imbibe nothing but the best.

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