I have lost count of how many times I've heard or seen this phrase written somewhere.
"Forgiveness Is For You!"
Forgiveness is your path to emotional freedom. Nobody wants to be a slave to anger! I can't sit here and pretend that forgiving someone, who has caused more pain then you can imagine, is an easy thing to do. I can't sit here and pretend that the anger will melt away like snow or that you will all of a sudden be healed of so much pain at the blink of an eye. However, I can tell you that when you hang on to that anger you are giving that person the power to control your mind and block your blessings. Your anger slows down and eventually shuts down your progress to the happy and healthy future that you deserve.
Personally I am tired of wondering and asking why. I am tired of hurting and tearing up every time I see a happy family in the park or an attentive father playing with and showering his kids with love and attention. I am tired of looking at my beautiful little angel and holding back tears because I still cannot wrap my brain around what kind of person can just walk away from his family.