I know it can totally get confusing. Go to my blog and on the right side (you'll have to scroll a little) is a section of "fabulous followers"...click follow and follow the directions and you should be good to go! If ou want to enter the giveaway make sure to leave a comment, after you become a follower, here http://welcometocaliland.blogspot.com/2010/06/calilands-first-giveaway.html
Hi again! Thanks for commenting back! If you go to the sidebar of the blog, there will be a bunch of little squares with faces on it. Those are followers of the blog and right above there should be a button that says "follow" Then once you are following mine, or any other blog you can go to your blogger.com and sign in and scroll down and you will see your reading list (blogs you are following) That will have updated posts of all the blogs your following. I hope that helps!